Are you not popular at work and would like to change it? After all, you spend most of your time at work and relationships with your colleagues play an important role in how you feel and perform. You might not want to suck up to anyone or impose yourself, but there is no need to. You can build relationships in a non-threatening manner that benefits of all involved. Entrepreneur.com provided the following recommendations on how to get along better with your colleagues, superiors or clients.
1. Respect their time
Do not interrupt others' work with trifles. Do not distract someone with unnecessary questions or by speaking too loud.
2. Do not write anything bad about others
Do not use e-mail to complain about what bothers you about your colleagues or customers. Everything you write can get into the wrong hands and ruin your reputation.
3. Do not snitch
If you keep on visiting your superiors with complaints, not only your boss, but also your colleagues will hate you. Always solve problems with the people concerned.
4. Do not be negative
Nobody likes people who constantly complain and approach everything with contempt. Rather be positive and show an interest. At the same time, however, do not overdo it. An overly positive individual is also unpopular.
5. Search for common interests
Take advantage of the times when you and your colleague are waiting for your next appointment or when you first meet a new client to have a short conversation. Ask about the weekend or an important event from the recent days.
6. Keep quiet and listen
People are naturally drawn to those who listen to them. Stop thinking only about what you want to say and let the others talk.
7. Offer assistance
A helping hand always stiffens relationships. When others see you are helping, they will be willing to help you too.
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