According to the blog of HubSpot, with most people charisma is inherent. But personal charm is connected primarily to a number of traits that you can adopt and thus immediately become more likeable to those around you.
Ability to empathise
Try to empathise with people. If they tell you about their problems or delights, share their feelings with them as if they were your own.
No pretence
Do not try to be someone you are not. People who are not authentic cannot build their own personal charm.
Ability to admit a mistake
Charismatic people are able to admit mistakes and errors they have made and face up to them. People will then feel at ease with you as they will know you are not hiding anything essential from them.
Sense of humour
Humour is not just about making others laugh. It is also the best indicator of self-confidence, and self-confidence is closely connected to charisma.
Maximum attention
The most important thing about charismatic people is that they have maximum engagement in whatever they are doing at a given moment. When they are talking to someone, they pay full attention and do not think of other things. They are “present” in the given moment.
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