A guide for cholerics: how to stay cool and take things more calmly

Some people quickly become annoyed. Stressful or conflict-filled situations may provoke strong emotions, leading to frustration, anger, or even an urge to take things out on the people around them. Excessively emotional reactions of this kind are, of course, inappropriate in particular for managers, aspiring leaders or professionals with serious career ambitions. If you know you have a short temper and want to do something about it, here are some practical tips.

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Identify your triggers

Pay attention to your emotions and recognise which types of situations provoke your anger. INC.com advises that once you become aware of these moments, you should anticipate the strong emotional response they can cause. Support your emotional intelligence and be aware of what causes your reactions: only then can you deal with the situation.

Pause before responding

When something frustrates or upsets you, avoid reacting immediately. Take a break: step away for a few minutes, have a coffee, or listen to some music before responding to an email or making a decision. Giving yourself a moment to process the situation can help you respond with greater clarity and composure.

Reduce long-term stress

Angry outbursts are more common if you are under prolonged stress. To benefit both yourself and those around you, identify and address the long-term stressors that keep you in a state of chronic tension. Managing stress effectively can help reduce emotional reactivity.

Find healthy ways to release frustration

Engage in activities that allow the release of pent-up emotions in a healthy manner. Exercise, target shooting, playing video games, or attending sporting events can be great outlets. These activities offer moments where intense emotions and high energy levels can be more beneficial than disruptive. Find what works for you and do it regularly.

Consider seeking professional help

A therapist or personal coach can offer valuable guidance in managing anger issues. Do not hesitate to discuss your challenges with a professional who can help you develop strategies for handling difficult situations more effectively. Seeking help is a proactive step towards personal and professional growth.



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