You need to create your own “presence” by being present and listening, which is great for building and fostering relationships.
1) Be present
This is the most essential aspect which gives rise to personal charisma. When you have a “presence”, others feel drawn to you. People with presence can talk to others about almost anything. Being in the present moment means giving your full attention to person you're talking to. Don’t let your mind wander from one thought to another.
2) Be self-confident
Confidence is another essential building block of charisma. This one is tricky to build, though. Also, when someone is overly confident, they can seem arrogant. It all boils down to how you feel about yourself. Everything that affects how you feel (your diet, regular exercise or your clothes) can foster your confidence or decrease it.
3) Stay true
Today, false truths and quick judgements are everywhere. Charismatic people react to lying or over-exaggerating by being honest and saying what they think. That may be a hard thing to do, but often the other person will respect you more. Another skill is to admit that you might not know something. Also, show curiosity in what the other party is saying to you.
4) Be a skilled conversationalist
In order to be charismatic, you simply must know how to converse with people. You also need to be able to steer the conversation in any direction you need to. That comes with practice, according to an article on the addicted2success.com website.
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