Subordinates disagreeing with your proposal? Some tips on convincing them

Team leaders must know how to inspire and motivate subordinates. They also have to be able to convince them of their sound judgement when making important decisions. However, your subordinates might not always agree with you. Should you then allow them space to debate the matter, or simply say that's how things are and that's the end of it? Here are some tips on convincing subordinates when they disagree with you.

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These tips were published by INSEAD Knowledge.

Listen to subordinates' arguments

Before you start trying to persuade subordinates, let them explain their views to you. This will not only gain the trust of the team, but also offer valuable insights you might otherwise not have thought of.

Explain the context

One of the most common reasons for disagreement is lack of information. Explain the wider context to the team, using clear and straightforward arguments as to why you believe your proposal is optimal. People are often more open to change if you explain the logic behind it.

Adapt your approach to different personalities

We are all different and we all prefer different communication styles too. While some people appreciate data and numbers, others are more given to stories or emotions. Try to approach your subordinates individually and adapt the style of communication with them accordingly.

Give specific examples

If you support your proposal with successful examples from the past, or provide clear and understandable examples, it will be easier for subordinates to understand your point of view.

Be open to compromise

Persuasion can sometimes shift the search for compromise, so don't resist it: if you see that your subordinates have good arguments, be willing to modify your proposal to make everyone happy.

 

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